3. Thread-finding with a husband or wife. Grab somebody who is aware you properly (e. g. , a counselor, pal, family members member). Share all your brainstorming articles with them and inquire them to mirror again to you what they're seeing. It can be practical if they use reflective language and inquire a lot of queries. An example of a reflective observation is: "I am listening to that 'building' has...